LONELINESS CAN BE A BRIGHT PATH!

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Today I feel like talking about loneliness. You probably heard a lot of people say that loneliness is bad and how no man is an island. However, I have a different view for it, how will you work on yourself or decide the next step in life without having some alone time? So, get up take that leap and discover something new! I’m not encouraging people to leave their wives or husbands or kids,,, hang in there just take a solo vacation and hang in there.

 

See how I encouraged people not to leave their families? Some people were done with their official duty of studying and were immediately encouraged to get married, they looked for their attractive attributes and just settled. I really hope Gen Z parents won’t force their kids to just settle, I know it's scary because one might think of their kids not being able to handle their sexual desires and sire a lot of bastards or get some chronic illnesses. You have to trust that your highest being has been taking care of you and trust your parenting skills to avoid being so insecure about your own child, you did it just right.

 

I think we should let our kids have some alone time, allowing them to explore the world and their interests, they might land on something that would give them total happiness.A child’s happiness is a huge blessing to the parent cause you see less of the gloomy face. Yes, they might be wrong but ever met someone who says, “yeah it was a bad experience, but I’d do it all over again cause it made me learn a lot about me like how self-love is really important.” So let them step out there and live for a few months or years just browsing through life cause it might be the last and final step they need to scale to greater heights.

 

Ngl, having hours and hours of literally not hanging out with anyone after school cause I was in a new environment actually made turn to blogging. My mind is always busy, doctors call us neurodivergents we always have a voice in our heads. I just thought to myself I might as well let others read some parts of my mind on a daily. This isn't part of my normal once in a month works cause I just woke up and immediately thought of typing and because I love my laptop!

 

Embrace that part you see as lonely and see yourself step into a different zone in life just don’t be depressed! Talk to someone or book a therapist! Lots of love hoping someone gains some courage to do something after reading this. I’ll see you soon!❤

 

PS: [I was listening to Daylight- Swift as I was typing this!]